Healing Through Dissolving

Mariel Witmond
Mariel Witmond

11 October, 2024

In our quest to heal, we often think of solving—analyzing our lives, dissecting our problems, and piecing together solutions. Yet healing doesn’t always lie in fixing or figuring things out. Sometimes, it’s found in the art of dissolving—of melting into movement, sound, and presence. It’s a return to the simplest, yet most profound expressions of our humanity.

Shamans have long taught that when someone feels lost or unwell, they need to ask themselves: When was the last time you danced? When was the last time you sang? These simple acts are medicine for the soul, reconnecting us to our essence and grounding us in the present moment.

The Tyranny of “Fixing”

We spend so much time and energy trying to fix ourselves. We think we must become the “best” version of ourselves, achieving some ideal we’ve created in our minds. But what if we stopped striving to solve our lives and instead allowed ourselves to dissolve into them? What if we softened, released control, and trusted that healing could emerge not from struggle but from surrender?

Healing through dissolving isn’t about passivity; it’s a conscious choice to let go of tension and the need to have everything figured out. This process is about entering the unknown with open arms, letting go of our mental grip and giving our bodies the freedom to lead. It’s a dance, a flow, a release.

Dissolving into Presence: The Antidote to Overthinking

The antidote to endless solving is dissolving. It’s an art—a willingness to surrender and let go. Just as the full moon goes through its phases, culminating in a moment of fullness before waning, we, too, must go through cycles of holding on and releasing. Surrender is essential in this cycle, reminding us that release is not the end but a necessary part of transformation.

Acceptance allows us to transcend limitations, dissolving the self-imposed walls that prevent us from experiencing peace. When we soften our resistance, we create space for healing to enter. The moment we release, we open ourselves to something greater.

Dance, Voice, and the Power of Flow

Our yoga practice, much like dance, is a way to reconnect with our bodies and free ourselves from the mind’s tight grip. When we let the body lead in yoga or dance, we enter a state of flow that naturally dissolves the weight of overthinking. And when we sing or chant, we release what’s been held inside, letting our voice rise and our spirit expand. These practices allow us to express our unspoken fears, doubts, and judgments, letting them dissipate into the air as we breathe deeply and fully.

In these moments, there is no striving, no achieving—only being. And it’s in that state of pure being that healing becomes possible. Our voices become a channel, our movements a prayer. We let go of the need for answers, embracing the simplicity of the present moment.

Embracing the Power of Letting Go

So, the next time you face a challenge, consider a different approach. Rather than seeking an immediate solution, allow yourself to dissolve into the experience. Play music, let your body move, or lift your voice in song. It may feel strange at first to forego the impulse to “fix” things. But as you lean into this space of surrender, you may find that the path forward reveals itself naturally, without force or resistance.

Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is simply let go. The journey of healing, after all, is not about fixing ourselves—it’s about allowing ourselves to be whole, just as we are. So, give yourself permission to pause, to dance, to sing, to surrender. Because in that surrender lies the quiet yet profound alchemy of transformation.

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